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The Upside of 'Bad' Emotions
Ask anyone new to therapy what their goal is and they’re likely to say they “just want to be happier.” Society at large seems to support...
Kristina Virro
Feb 10, 20205 min read


Things We All Have in Common
Today marks the annual “Bell Let’s Talk” day. The initiative, which started in 2010, aims to promote awareness about mental health issues...
Kristina Virro
Jan 27, 20205 min read


Read This if You're Just Not Feeling Great Right Now
There are some days where you just feel really… blah. Or maybe you’re more prone to anxiety and feel unusually on edge for some reason....
Kristina Virro
Dec 9, 20195 min read


Small Things That People in Happy Relationships Do
Recently, I watched the Netflix original series Living With Yourself, which follows the story of a miserable man named Miles who visits a...
Kristina Virro
Nov 4, 20195 min read


Habits People With Depression Have in Common
I had been working with Marty* and his depression for about eight sessions—enough time for me to know some of his patterns, quirks, and...
Kristina Virro
Oct 28, 20196 min read


Why Negative Self-Talk Doesn't Work
It’s 2018 and I’ve just opened my private practice. I sit at my desk looking at my work calendar for the week ahead. Insecurity and...
Kristina Virro
Oct 7, 20194 min read


Things Everyone Says After a Breakup
In 2006, Croatia opened the first ever Museum of Broken Relationships. The owners, artists Drazen Grubisic and Olinka Vistica, decided...
Kristina Virro
Sep 30, 20197 min read


Should You Tell Your Friend You Don't Like Their Significant Other?
We’ve all been there: your friend excitedly tell you that they’re dating someone new and that they can’t wait to introduce you. You...
Kristina Virro
Sep 16, 20196 min read


Why People Freak Out About Turning Thirty
I’d been working with Angela* and her girlfriend of three years, Robyn*, for a few weeks. Unlike many of the couples I meet who have...
Kristina Virro
Sep 9, 20196 min read


Women's Equality Day: Celebrating Successes, Recognizing Opportunities
While August 26 wasn’t given the title of Women’s Equality Day until 1971, the significance of this date can be traced back to 1920. For...
Kristina Virro
Aug 26, 20197 min read


Can Therapists Predict if a Relationship will Last?
Every now and again, someone will ask me "how they are doing" as a couple. What they're really asking is: Do you think we're going to...
Kristina Virro
Aug 19, 20195 min read


Signs It's Time to Break Up
“For months now I’ve been thinking we need to call it quits,” Meredith* explains, her blue eyes looking brighter than usual as the sun...
Kristina Virro
Aug 12, 20196 min read


How to Actually Have a Good Day
Recently, I found myself engaging in thinking patterns that were somewhat negative. Perhaps it was due to overworking myself, not having...
Kristina Virro
Jul 22, 20194 min read


Crucial Conversations Every Couple Needs to Have
As someone who has worked with a number of individuals, couples, and families over the years, I have to say that it’s getting harder and...
Kristina Virro
Jul 15, 20197 min read


Empowered By Pride
The article below is written by a friend and fellow therapist, Kyle Karalash, as it didn't feel quite right to me to speak about PRIDE as...
Kristina Virro
Jun 24, 20196 min read


How to Avoid Burnout
All of us have felt mentally or emotionally depleted from overworking ourselves at one point or another. But burnout isn’t just a term...
Kristina Virro
Jun 17, 20198 min read


How to Feel Less Lonely
At the beginning of 2018, so many British people were feeling lonely—nine million to be exact—that the Prime Minister appointed a...
Kristina Virro
Jun 3, 20195 min read


How to Stop Ruminating
“What if she never truly loved me?” *Alex asks aloud as he nervously picks at his cuticles. “What if our six years of being together...
Kristina Virro
May 13, 20195 min read


The Six beliefs of emotionally healthy people
I would say my mental health has come a very long way over the years. I often look back at where I was even just five years ago and feel...
Kristina Virro
Apr 15, 20195 min read


How to Resent Your Partner: a Fool-Proof Guide
If there’s any emotion that gives me the warm fuzzies when it appears in therapy, it’s resentment, of course! Bitterness and intense...
Kristina Virro
Apr 1, 20193 min read
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